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Monday, August 24, 2020

Russian Bride Agency Conspiracies (Guest Blogger)

 

Russian Bride Agency Conspiracies


Russian Bride Agency Conspiracies

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You read all over the internet NEGATIVE OPINIONS about how Russian Bride agencies run their business. It almost seems that everyday there is a new conspiracy developing over such-n-such agency and how they DO BUSINESS. That their agency is a scam, the Russian women are fake and the forever thundering echo of “I’ve paid nearly $200 and not one girl has ever written me back!” I’ve even heard men say that almost all of the Russian Bride sites have the same girls, that a truly great agency won’t share their girls, etc. But my friends, there are always TWO SIDES to every story, and perhaps after reading this article, you will think twice BEFORE blasting out your own conspiracy theory….

CONSIDER THIS:

There are many dating sites that contain the same profiles. When I was a member of Match.com so many years ago, I used to see the same girls all the time on other sites as well, such as matchmaker.com, udate and yahoo personals. We all joined multiple sites to spread ourselves out — to have more options. And during that time, I can say that I joined nearly every site imaginable. So would you agree that all of these sites are involved in some kind of conspiracy because they have the same profiles?

A man searching for a Russian bride joins 2-3 sites at once, writes to many ladies, gets his photo in the site catalogue that is presented to Russian women… so that’s 3 site catalogues he is now a member of. The ladies see his photo in 3 different catalogues and begin to wonder… is he involved in a conspiracy then too, simply because he has joined 2-3 different Russian Bride sites?

A man describes himself as being wealthy, good looking and successful… and he sends out 400 emails telling Russian women how he is a God in bed, how women love him and worship the ground he walks upon. How he loves to have cybersex and invites all Russian women to join him in on the fun… yet not one letter was returned. Is this a conspiracy?

BOTTOM LINE:

Business is business — always has been and always will be. Part of the success to any dating site is having a large database to attract new customers. Profiles hardly ever get removed — and while some do remove the old profiles, most do not. My profile is still on many of the other dating sites and I can’t get them to remove it because I forgot the email address I used to sign up with. This was 5 years ago too!

Russian girls are human too — and they spread themselves out too by joining many different marriage agencies. Many of the Russian bride sites use real marriage agencies located in Russia, and many of these agencies are NOT exclusive to just one bride site. They are all in business to make money, so you cannot blame them for spreading themselves out too. And after a while, these same Russian girls forget which marriage agencies they joined up with, lose contact or whatever, and their profiles stay forever in the database. It’s part of the dating business and will always be like that. Nobody’s fault really — but don’t blame a dating agency for not deleting a profile simply because a user has forgotten to contact them and tell them to remove it.

Agencies are not the bad guys nor the good guys. They are a business, plain and simple. They have a list of over 30,000 clients, some even more — so do you really expect them to call every single women and ask if their still single? Does match.com do that? For the record, does any dating site do that? Of course not and it’s ludicrous to think that they should.

And what about writing those letters and not getting any responses? Well, what about it?!! Write some more and keep on truckin’! Not everyone is going to think you’re as great as YOU seem to know that you are. That’s life… get used to disappointment. I sent out probably thousands of letters in my 4 years of online dating, and at best, I might have gotten maybe a 15% return rate. In my opinion, that is actually pretty good too. Online dating is not easier, so don’t be a fool and think it is. It only gives you more options to meeting more people — but along side of that also comes more rejections.

So the next time you hear a negative”Opinion” about how Russian dating agencies are handled, just remember one thing… they are in business to make money; and whether or not the practices of certain agencies might be argued as being ILLEGITIMATE, you always still have the choice of NOT JOINING. If you believe a certain agency carries a lousy reputation, then why bother joining it in the first place? Just move on and find another site to join that you feel more comfortable with. Good luck!

Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Understanding Your Russian Women


So you have found your perfect match. There is definitely chemistry between the two of you and you undeniably click. She's beautiful, smart, kind, and funny. She is caring and warm. She is demure and proper, yet she gets out of her shell once in a while when needed. She is a charmer and can laugh at herself. Simply put, she is perfect.

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Here comes the bigger challenge keeping her. By now you have probably gone through a number of interracial marriage agencies, Internet-based marriage agencies, and a number of meet-ups in and out of the country. Never let your efforts go to waste. Make sure that your love is a keeper.

Here are the ways.
Forget everything you learned from the dating site or marriage agency you signed up for. Once you are together, it is up to the both of you to work on your compatibility. Start all over again and explore everything about each other as if you have never communicated before.

Don't compare her to other women, whether Western women or Russian Women. Recognize the fact that that she is her own unique self. There may be things about her that you may find different, maybe even weird. But just sit back and you may actually realize that these are the things you miss the most when you're not together.


Know a little about her history. Her thinking and attitude are shaped by the grievances, hardships, celebrations, and experiences her nation and her people have had in the past. If you do exert some effort, you may be able to find fascinating things about her country and her ancestors. You will eventually be able to understand how and why she thinks the way that she does.

Understand her traditions. If you understand the tradition that your Russian woman grew up in, you will be able to determine the things she would find beautiful, interesting, and offensive. Know that Russian women are conservative and do not easily open up about sensitive topics such as sex. She is reserved and private, therefore she reveals her inner self only to a few chosen people. If you are sensitive about her nature, then she will appreciate you more.

Try to learn their language. Or at least learn how to say I love you in Russian (get your first lesson for free). Doing this creates the impression that you are willing to do small, simple, and sweet things for her. Doing this also communicates that you ready for a committed relationship that may actually result in a walk down the aisle.

Find out what makes her tick. Be observant. Take visual clues of what she finds amazing. When you see her face light up, take note of what just took place or what she just saw. If you keep doing the things she loves, then you are sure to get that love back.

Stick to your woman. This is perhaps the best advice you can take. There is no excuse for cheating. And cheaters are not worthy to be forgiven. Russian woman, like any other woman of any descent, appreciate honesty above everything else. Without honesty, there can be no trust. Without trust, there can be no relationship.


Tuesday, July 21, 2020

Perfect husband for a Russian girl by Anonymous

Lucky for me, when these questions began swarming in my head, a good girlfriend of mine, who has lived in Italy for a number of years, was in town to visit her family. So, instead of digging through piles of statistics and wracking my brain to get the information so interesting for me, I contacted her and loaded her brain with all the questions.


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Before I move on, let me make myself clear: by no means does this article include motives and wants of every Russian bride, who submits her profile to a marriage agency. And I will be the first to encourage the foreigners: try be be as cautious as possible if you decided to apply to a marriage agency. In the past, some Russian ladies from the FSU countries have provided more than enough negative publicity (read my article on scams in Lugansk city, Ukraine), but don’t let that discourage you and miss out on a chance to gift someone the pleasure of communication and a possibility to find love. With that in mind, I proceed

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When I began questioning the motives of Russian women who take a chance on marriage agencies, my first discovery was quite disturbing. One of the main explanations for the FSU women to like foreigners is that men from their native countries… aren’t good enough. There are a lot of bad stories about the life of Russian girls in foreign countries. Why not admit that the reason is in those men at home, who, in my opinion, don’t know what a family is?” – said Natasha commenting on the article in one of the leading Russian papers, which blamed marriages to the foreigners. “Unfortunately, there are a lot of things the ‘Russian’ men would have to do to keep up with the foreigners.” Some bridal agencies will give you the same information. An American journalist, who took a “Romance tour to find a Russian bride” trip to Ukraine as a part of his investigation for a story, says in his on-line journal that the instructor on the tour explained to him: Ukrainian and Russian men “drink, philander, alternately beat and neglect women.”

Obviously, not every FSU man treats women this way. Nevertheless, a general conception that most Russian brides and Ukrainian women share of the men in their home countries comes down to a few common words: irresponsible, hard-hearted, too demanding and not willing to provide for their children, let alone their mother. Throughout history Russian women have been famous for the way they treated their family. They are loving, devoted and caring, and, coming to a marriage agency they dream to find someone like themselves to create a strong happy family.

The other thing noticed by Natasha during her three-year-long marriage to a foreigner: To tell you the truth, marrying him I didn’t think about living in Italy… But for Italians the family is very-very important and they put a great emphasis on the family values. That meant a lot to me. Foreigners in general seem to be more serious about family and children, unlike the men at home.”

In line with a lack of quality of the FSU men, there is also a lack of quantity. The year 2002 gave us a discouraging statistics showing the ratio men-women 46:100, nothing has much changed since then. Given that a large part of these 46% are people who can’t be counted on for love, care and support, it leaves the ladies of Russia and Ukraine very little to chose from. Obviously, when something you need is not in sight, you look to broader horizons.

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“All the good ones have been snatched away long ago, your chances to find someone in this country after you turn 25 are next to nil,” Natasha mused over a cup of coffee (she married her Italian sweetheart at the age of 29). “It seems the guys (in Ukraine) disappear when they turn 30.”

On the top of all said, the appreciation of their own femininity sets the FSU women apart from American or European ladies. A lot of men can see that the FSU women are different. And this is not only about their outer beauty that is so well-known. These ladies like to look pretty, it is not unusual for them to wear a dress and pumps on a regular basis, they care about their body and like to be attractive. Bottom line, they want to be feminine, not feminist.

The FSU women cherish being a “weak gender”, which for them means taking care of their family in the first place, as well as being cared for and appreciated. Promises of that seem to be given in abundance by Americans and Europeans, many of whom share an opinion that it has been too long since Western women have shown any aspiration to cherish the softer side of the “weaker gender”. The men abroad consider the tender feminine side of Russian women a great advantage comparing to Western women mad about careers and getting equal with men. Even some FSU men notice that the foreigners are attracted by “their” women because they “remain women, not some emancipated feminists, like in the West”.

Natasha dreamily remembers her very first visitings Italy: “When I was in Italy I was treated like a princess surrounded with attention, that I missed so much from our men. I think there is so much beauty (in Russia), that our men are simply used to it, it is mundane to them, they forget about simple compliments Italians value beauty.”

After all this, what can I say to the men in search of their destiny? It all comes down to what you are looking for. No doubt, there will be some money-hungry vamps, eager to trap you. If you want to find a woman for one night it is not a problem either in Ukraine or Russia nor anywhere else in the world. But if you are looking for a woman who will respect you, relish her family and be as smart as she is pretty, the chances of you finding that in Ukraine or Russia are greater than at any other place.

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Monday, July 20, 2020

How to Know When You Are Being Targeted by a Russian or Ukrainian Dating Scammer

How to Know When You Are Being Targeted by a Russian or Ukrainian Dating Scammer

Antiscam for men searching for a Russian spouse

With the appearance of the Web, human’s prospects and openings have stretched out in numerous regards. Sadly, not every person shows genuineness utilizing these chances. Web extortion these days is a somewhat boundless marvel. It will be incredible in the event that you contemplate this reality. We trust you’ll have the option to shield yourself from activities of deceptive individuals on finding out around a few sorts of extortion at dating locales in this section.

General data on Web misrepresentation at dating destinations

The two people can stow away under the veils of swindlers. The objective of their action is as a rule to get cash out of their targets. Be that as it may, you shouldn’t prohibit different variations, for instance, when female site clients fake being someone else (unmarried, a lot more youthful or appealing), they do it not to profit monetarily, yet to have a ton of fun or raise their confidence. Hitched ladies posting their personal profiles at dating locales under the guise of unmarried ones as a rule seek after comparative or different destinations.

How does Web misrepresentation compromise men searching for partnership with Russian ladies on the web? On the off chance that you fall for a trick, you’ll burn through your time at the best and your cash and nerves at the worst. Survivors of unscrupulous individuals feel passionate pressure. Their confidence sinks and it’s exceptionally hard for them once in a while to reassemble their messed up heart.

Swindlers have a great deal of weapons: capacity to get trusted, make someone fall in love with them, tempt, make praises, cause pity and compassion, and pick the just a single reasonable correspondence style. Proficient swindlers (in the event that they can be called so) have a lot of techniques and ploys that let them get into unsuspecting and lonely men’s graces in the most limited potential terms. A portion of these individuals are conceived analysts, others acquired essential information with the assistance of self-training.

Kinds of extortion at dating destinations

It ought to be noted that swindlers can be men, yet since men speaking with them think of them as women, we’ll discuss female swindlers for straightforwardness of our story.

A wide range of cheats at dating locales are partitioned into two major gatherings. The first is fakes not associated with apparent wrongdoings. The different incorporates those that don’t go (or scarcely go) past the law.

Separate class is introduced by pornography site suppliers. On the off chance that you get a challenge to visit some off-site entrance so as to see pictures, don’t reject the chance of getting to a pornography site. Experienced Web clients for the most part erase the approaching message or imprint it as spam in such cases.

Inquisitive novices for the most part acknowledge the greeting not realizing that such sites are loaded with infections and they need to pay cash to visit naked pictures. Individuals procure cash the manner in which they can and it’s dependent upon you to conclude whether to give your cash to them and whether to open your PC to threat.

Further we’ll discuss fakes not going past the law.

Fakes without wrongdoing

A dating site or psychotherapy?

Delegates of the female sex enrolling at dating locales experience the ill effects of low confidence, tragically. Posting individual data women stand out, get praises and step-by-step begin feeling increasingly fruitful and popular. As a matter of fact, it completely fulfills their need for correspondence. In the event that a woman has made your acquaintance just to hear better point of view of herself, she doesn’t seek a genuine relationship.

Always youthful

“You don’t get some information about their age”. A significant notable expression, right? Be that as it may, in the event that you are searching for a russian spouse by means of the Web, your inquiry concerning her age isn’t simply interest. In the event that a lady downplays her age a piece, her untruths might be viewed as a little stunt. She reduced her age by 20 years? It’s excessive, wouldn’t you say? Scarcely any men desire a genuine connection with a woman their mom’s age.

This gathering likewise incorporates ladies posting another person’s photographs and twisting genuine data in their online personal profiles. Such activities seek after indistinguishable targets from age modest representation of the truth.

Practically unmarried

Hitched ladies enrolling at dating destinations typically arrive due to two reasons – absence of correspondence or challenges in close to home life. In the event that such lady has issues in her associations with her spouse, she may feel prepared to break marriage ties, however she doesn’t do it for certain reasons and favors finding someone else forever first.

Such a woman be viewed as a swindler on the off chance that she let her discussion accomplice think about her circumstance? Dubiously. In spite of the fact that, it happens once in a while that lady’s very own life gets fixed in some time and virtual association breaks. An outside accomplice, who got hooked on this woman, dislikes this new development.

“I’m hitched, yet open for correspondence”

A wedded lady frequently winds up at a dating site not having at first any marital aims. This classification of wedded site clients contains exhausted women searching for transient associations with outsiders or needing to get some language practice.

Now and then the woman’s significant other thinks about her correspondence with an outsider. Actually, he has side connections at times too. On the off chance that it goes this way, a lady for the most part reveals to her new colleague about her marriage status transparently. Getting in contact with such woman, you should realize that odds for making it a lasting relationship are not high.

Under the veil of unmarried

A few ladies lie, intentionally pretending to be unmarried. You ought to be careful with such ones. Correspondence with them regularly causes moral sufferings of outside men wanting to locate a perpetual accomplice relationship.

“I’m getting separated”

Ladies of this gathering regularly think honestly that they are separating (getting separated) with a past accomplice and looking for another one. They are in doubt at chances with their darling or spouse and can’t calmly assess a genuine situation. Mental condition of these delegates of the female gender is not steady. In this period, it’s practically difficult to construct another relationship. Moreover, much of the time fights end with a détente, and new associates from a dating site stay alone.

A man behind a lady’s image

A man holding himself out as a lady? He is either a joker or has issues with sex-job recognizable proof. It’s young people who like to chuckle at site clients along these lines. Grown-ups making themselves look like ladies are either juvenile or have harsh occasions tolerating themselves and their sex. Cheats of this sort make targets baffled and frustrated with respect to the time spent. When in doubt, that is the place impact runs out giving there is no criminal constituent of the extortion.

How to ensure yourself against fakes?

All together not to get defrauded you should be extremely mindful to perceive unscrupulousness in time.

How about we identify indications of every misrepresentation possible. They may assist you with keeping from unneeded correspondence.

A dating site or psychotherapy?

A woman discusses herself a great deal and doesn’t hear you out. She is apprehensive and rushes to limits. Her portrayal of own benefits is verbose. She attempts to introduce herself as a perfect, yet regularly gets affronted at normal inquiries. Such delegates of the female gender can spew allegations towards the man and frquently cut to the heart.

Perpetually youthful

Pictures in woman’s photograph collection are the principal characteristic of her age. Take a gander at garments and haircut of the woman at the photos. Pretty much every individual can characterize when the image was taken to five-ten years earlier.

A man behind a lady’s image

For this situation depend on your instinct and language stylistics. It isn’t so natural for an outsider to speculate that something isn’t right because of inadequate drenching in language culture. That is the reason in the event that you have doubts demonstrate the messages to an interpreter analyst. It will be extraordinary if an expert is a local speaker of the language of your discussion accomplice.

There is another approach to uncover extortion. Request an accomplice’s phone number or discussion about close to home gathering with an alleged liar. In the event that there is a man behind a lady’s photograph he in no way, shape or form will consent to any of these variations. What’s more, will probably end correspondence.

Another variant is to tell the “lady” that you would like to send flowers, and you need her address where she would receive them. Explain, that in order to confirm delivery of your generous gift, the delivery driver will photograph her with her flowers, or maybe a stuffed animal, and the driver will send the picture to you. If the “lady” is different from what you have observed in her Web images, “she” will aggressively oppose this variant. I personally employed this variant to weed out the first unscrupulous “lady” that I corresponded with.

I did get “her” address to send some pictures of my home, but I had another variant in mind. I already had a friend living near to the address that scammer had given to me, so I asked her to go watch who comes and goes, and I sent her a picture of the scammer for comparison.

Hitched or mentally bound to past connections ladies

There are various signs that a woman is hitched. Her Web profile can be vacant. A woman can be frequently discouraged. She doesn’t give her telephone number and never consents to meet. In the event that you can address her by means of the video-talk or via telephone, however, it’s her who picks time. In course of discussion a woman can out of nowhere sever the call. Hitched lady typically appears to be strange. She informs nearly nothing and seldom concerning her relationship experience and never talks about existence plans.

Cheats with criminal thought process

“Help me!” Variation 1

A swindler woman just as some other female site client starts colleague or answer the main letter of an honorable man. She wriggles into favor through an assortment of means adeptly guaranteeing a man of her earnestness.

On verifying that you got hooked on her enough and don’t see the catch, this lady informs you regarding an abrupt troublesome circumstance. It might be the narrative of ailment (hers or her family). Furthermore, recuperation needs cash, obviously (for example for a costly medical procedure). On the off chance that a swindler can’t move a respectable man enough to get this cash from him, she gets quiet for quite a while or grumbles of powerlessness to pay for the Web (all cash goes to treatment). A man, who is acquainted with getting woman’s messages normally, attempts to keep the association and, obviously, offers his monetary assistance.

He sends the woman an entirety of cash, and that is the thing that she needed. The cash is normally moved in the manner recommended (Western Union most often) by a swindler. It’s generally an E-cash installment framework, since it’s hard or even difficult to recognize the individual accepting cash when utilizing such framework.

What is the following stage? It might come or not. A few swindlers rehash a similar deceive however approach cash for something different, yet not less significant. Anyway most of them

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