Russian Scam Brides: The Early Signs of Scam and How to Protect Yourself

Russian Scam Brides: The Early Signs of Scam and How to Protect Yourself

‘Russian scam brides’ is a never ending exciting subject of online publications. In this article, the burning questions and complaints about hot Russian brides are discussed. Are Russian brides true or scam? Russian brides are TRUE! Unfortunately, there is always someone ready to empty the pockets of men who are overly eager for romantic adventures. Keep your eyes and ears open, so to say. Here are some stats about Russian scam brides: 0.1% of all applicants submitting their information to the Russian dating services are scammers. Who are these Russian scam brides? They are a small group of people (they may not be even women) earning money this way on the Internet. They view relationships as more of a business enterprise. They send emails to all available singles through dating services. Just like email spamming, they are searching for their victims and following the rules of the game they play. How can Russian scam brides be recognized? Here are the top 4 early signs of scam. The letters a man receives are not specific. They tend to be generalized, not answering the exact needs of the given man. Direct questions about personal life are usually avoided, just some ready pieces of information.

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Scammers play to man’s instincts, to whatever he wants to hear and see: beautiful model – quality appearance (usually false), sexy photos, “special love” they mention after a few letters… If a given man considers this speed strange, it is. Until you met in person, any claims of love should be suspect.

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The majority of scams involve money. The so called Russia woman usually asks for financial support: terrible financial situation, telephone fees, Internet expenses, etc. Scammers are always mercenary, they usually look for the man’s sympathy, for “what you can buy for me” (it is their job!).

Close attention should be paid to the huge age difference. In this case the chances of being scammed only increase. For the sake of justice it should be said that some real good girls are attracted by the older men (security, stability). However, it is not surprising that Russian scam brides are likely to be involved with much older men. How to protect yourself from being scammed? Here are the top 4 effective, simple and easy techniques that can help you avoid being scammed.

Never send money to strangers. The majority of scams involve money for travel to the man’s country. Take common sense precautions: send her the ticket rather than money if you want her to come visit you. Keep your purse in your pocket, it’s difficult to get scammed as far as you do it.

Check out the girl’s incredibly beautiful appearance, the photo may be false. Ask her for more photos that are not made in the studio.

Ask for the girl’s personal information (postal address, telephone, etc.) and see her reaction. Does she ask for gifts? It’s wonderful! Find an agency that delivers flowers and gifts with photo confirmation. Scammers hate this, they love anonymity. This way will be verified not only her appearance but also her postal address and telephone number.

A travel to Russia should be born in mind to meet your pretty Russian girl and her family. If the intentions are serious, of course. Thus the majority of burning questions will be answered and the initial information verified. And may be even more… Remember, 99,9% of pretty Russian girls are actual, REAL. They want to find love and build a family in spite of unfavorable demographic situation in Russia. The rewards of finding a suitable Russian woman outweigh the risks. Use these simple precautions and you will be safe from Russian scam brides.

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Russian women who chose to become "mail order brides" do it to escape economical misery-MYTH

Most women who decide to look for husbands abroad do it NOT because they want an automatic washing machine and hamburgers. Those things are available to people in their societies also. Truly harsh conditions no longer exist in large cities where the majority of Internet "mail order brides"(there is not really any such thing as a mail order bride) reside. Think about it, some people in your society also live in trailers! The myth about economical misery is as good as your knowledge of those societies.

Over the last decade, the world has changed dramatically and life conditions evolved not only in your country. Since the invention of the World Wide Web, technology has rapidly expanded across the globe. It is only in smaller regional towns that you can find conditions that are typically shown in Hollywood movies about Russia and Asia. As you know, lives in small towns in your country are also different from life in big cities, although the gap in foreign countries may be larger.

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Regarding Russians, in general, Russian people do not consider their life miserable. In fact, they are proud to be Russians!

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Russian people believe that they live in a great country, which might have some problems but overall, it is a great country. Just like you believe you live in a great country too. Russians also have their pride in being citizens of the largest country in the world, stretching over 11 time zones and which nearly twice as big as the second largest country in the world – Canada. The majority of Russian people do not think living in the USA, or Canada, or Australia is such a privilege. People that grew up in Soviet Russia all sincerely believed that they were lucky to be born in the USSR and most of them still do. Families of Russian women married to western men rarely express a desire to immigrate to those countries. They don’t want to leave Russia. They enjoy traveling internationally but they don’t want to emigrate.

It is a myth that Russian women search for a foreign husband to escape economical misery. This is not applicable to the majority of Russian women whose listings you see on the Internet and this was not my personal motivation either (you will read my own story in greater detail later).

Many Russian women seeking marriage abroad have advanced careers and live well even according to western standards, having paid housekeepers and nannies for their children. The conditions of life in a major Russian city such as Moscow or St. Petersburg are comparable to any European capital. Pace of life in Moscow is similar to the one of New York City.

Yes, there are some Russian women that use search for a foreign husband as the means to escape poverty, but they are a minority. Some women in your society also use marriage as means of economical escape. Comparatively, the percentages are virtually the same

The real reason why Russian women turn to seek husbands abroad is that they cannot find suitable marriage partners in Russia. Yes, it is that simple!

You might think that a beautiful, slender, physically fit, educated and intelligent woman cannot really have problems with male admirers and you would be right: attractive women in Russia do have dating offers from Russian men. But those men are seeking only casual sex. They are either already married, or unwilling to commit, or they are not worthy of marrying because they cannot provide for a family.

Since all Russian women want children in their marriages (unless they are physically unable), thats part of the culture; they seek men who will be able to support their family while she is unable to work while caring for the child or children. Most Russian women take full time care of their children up to the age of 3. This tradition was inherited from the Soviet times when their work position was preserved for 3 years after child birth, with fully paid maternity leave for 18 months and unpaid leave for another 18 months. Nowadays they do not pay the maternity leave but women believe it is right to stay at home with your baby when she is small and seek men who are able to provide for their families.

Russian people marry early and by the age of 22 more than 50% of people are already married. By the age of 25 about 80% of people are married. Since there are less men than women in Russia (10 million more women than men, according to the latest census), and even less men who are worthy, the competition for eligible men is extremely harsh. As a result, the men become spoiled and promiscuous.

It might be hard to believe but a normal man who has a stable job (being able to solely provide for his family), is career and health conscious, and willing to commit, seems like a fairy tale prince to a single Russian woman. Guys like this are scarce in Russia and not available for long.

In contrast, good-looking women are in abundance in Russia, since the tough competition drives women to perfect their looks.

Historically, during the 20th century Russia had many wars, with World War II alone taking 20 million lives and another 20 million of people died in Stalins concentration camps. Nearly 90% of those victims were men. After the war, simply having a man was a blessing. Then there was the 14-year Afghanistan conflict in which hundreds of thousands of young Russian men died. Throughout the entire 20th century Russian women had to compete to ensure they had a husband.

Now they’ve got Chechnya – since 1993, just a few years after Russian troops left Afghanistan.

It is scientifically proven that where there are many more women in society than men, men tend to pursue short-term sexual strategies and are unwilling to commit. Along with other cultural moments, such as traditions of hard drinking and male chauvinism in Russia, it is no wonder that contemporary Russian women seize the opportunities offered by modern technologies and elect to broaden their horizons in their search for a suitable mate.

VASILÍSA THE FAIR (Part 1)

VASILÍSA THE FAIR

Once upon a time there was a merchant who had been married for twelve years and had only one daughter, Vasilísa the Fair. When her mother died the girl was eight years old. On her death-bed the mother called the maiden to her, took a doll out of her counterpane, said: “Vasilísushka, hear my last words. I am dying, and I will leave you my mother’s blessing and this doll. Keep this doll always by you, but show it to nobody, and no misfortune can befall you. Give it food and ask it for advice. After it has eaten, it will tell you how to avoid your evil.” Then the wife kissed her daughter and died.

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After the wife’s death the merchant mourned as it behoved, and then he thought of a second wife. He was a handsome man and found many brides, but he liked one widow more than any one. She was no longer young, and had two daughters of about the same age as Vasilísa. So she was an experienced housewife and mother. The merchant married her, but he had made a mistake, for she was no good mother to his own daughter.

Vasilísa was the fairest damsel in the entire village, and the stepmother and the sisters envied her therefore. And they used to torture her by piling all the work they could on her, that she might grow thin and ugly, and might be tanned by the wind and the sun. And the child lived a hard life. Vasilísa, however, did all her work without complaining, and always grew more beautiful and plumper, while the stepmother and her daughters, out of sheer spite, grew thinner and uglier. Yet there 110they sat all day long with their hands folded, just like fine ladies. How could this be?

   

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It was the doll that had helped Vasilísa. Without her the maiden could never have done her task. Vasilísa often ate nothing herself, and kept the tastiest morsels for the doll; and when at night they had all gone to bed, she used to lock herself up in her cellaret below, give the doll food to eat, and say, “Dollet, eat and listen to my misery. I am living in my father’s house, and my lot is hard. My evil stepmother is torturing me out of the white world. Teach me what I must do in order to bear this life.”

Then the doll gave her good advice, consoled her, and did all her morning’s work for her. Vasilísa was told to go walking, plucking flowers; and all her flowerbeds were done in time, all the coal was brought in, and the water-jugs carried in, and the hearthstone was hot. Further, the doll taught her herb-lore; so, thanks to her doll, she had a merry life; and the years went by.

Vasilísa grew up, and all the lads in the village sought her. But the stepmother’s daughters nobody would look at; and the stepmother grew more evil than ever and answered all her suitors: “I will not give my youngest daughter before I give the elders.” So she sent all the bargainers away, and to show how pleased she was, rained blows on Vasilísa.

One day the merchant had to go away on business for a long time; so the stepmother in the meantime went over to a new house near a dense, slumbrous forest. In the forest there was a meadow, and on the meadow there was a hut, and in the hut Bába Yagá lived, who would not let anybody in, and ate up men as though they were poultry. Whilst she was moving, the stepmother sent her hated stepdaughter into the wood, but she always came back perfectly safe, for the doll showed her the way by which she could avoid Bába Yagá’s hut.

111So one day the harvest season came and the stepmother gave all three maidens their task for the evening: one was to make lace and the other to sew a stocking, and Vasilísa was to spin. Each was to do a certain amount. The mother put all the fires out in the entire house, and left only one candle burning where the maidens were at work, and herself went to sleep. The maidens worked on. The candle burned down, and one of the stepmother’s daughters took the snuffers in order to cut down the wick. But the stepmother had told her to put the light out as though by accident.

“What is to be done now?” they said. “There is no fire in the house and our work is not finished. We must get a light from the Bába Yagá.”

“I can see by the needles,” said the one who was making lace.

“I also am not going,” said the second, “for my knitting needles give me light enough. You must go and get some fire. Go to the Bába Yagá!” And they turned Vasilísa out of the room.

And Vasilísa went to her room, put meat and drink before her doll, and said: “Dolly dear, eat it and listen to my complaint. They are sending me to Bába Yagá for fire, and the Bába Yagá will eat me up.”

Then the Dollet ate, and her eyes glittered like two lamps, and she said: “Fear nothing, Vasilísushka. Do what they say, only take me with you. As long as I am with you Bába Yagá can do you no harm.” Vasilísa put the doll into her pocket, crossed herself, and went tremblingly into the darksome forest.

Suddenly a knight on horseback galloped past her all in white. His cloak was white, and his horse and the reins: and it became light. She went further, and suddenly another horseman passed by, who was all in red, and his horse was red, and his clothes: and the sun rose. Vasilísa went on through the night and the next 112day. Next evening she came to the mead where Bába Yagá’s hut stood. The fence round the hut consisted of human bones, and on the stakes skeletons glared out of their empty eyes. And, instead of the doorways and the gate, there were feet, and in the stead of bolts there were hands, and instead of the lock there was a mouth with sharp teeth. And Vasilísa was stone-cold with fright.

Suddenly another horseman pranced by on his way. He was all in black, on a jet-black horse, with a jet-black cloak. He sprang to the door and vanished as though the earth had swallowed him up: and it was night. But the darkness did not last long, for the eyes in all the skeletons on the fence glistened, and it became as light as day all over the green.

Vasilísa trembled with fear, but remained standing, for she did not know how she could escape. Suddenly a terrible noise was heard in the forest, and the tree-boughs creaked and the dry leaves crackled. And out of the wood Bába Yagá drove in inside the mortar with the pestle, and with the broom swept away every trace of her steps. At the door she stopped, sniffed all the way round, and cried out:

“Fee, Fo, Fi, Fum, I smell the blood of a Russian mum!

Finest Russian Women Still Want American Men. Why?

Why do the finest Russian women search for American men?

As an owner of a free Russian women dating site, I have been asked a lot about Russian ladies looking for American men. Here is one of the questions:
I am a 31 year old American man and tried the personals in the US. I had little luck with local dating and regional dating sites. However, when I started using the Russian personals, the response was overwhelming.

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Why are the finest Russian women so much more interested in corresponding with American men than are American women interested in corresponding with American men?”
If you ask Russian ladies looking for American men about their motivations for seeking a husband abroad you may find out some convincing arguments for doing so.

Here are the top 6 reasons why the finest Russian women start searching for a foreign husband.

-> Census, Russia is home to 10 million more women then men. The number of women in their 30s noticeably exceeds the number of men. After the divorce, the woman with a kid (or with no kids) has little chance of getting married again in Russia, according to sociologists. There are no men in Russia to get married to: mortality rate of the working age males is extremely high.

-> Women are overloaded with family responsibilities in Russia: housekeeping, upbringing of children and earning of money. They have to take charge of all everyday problems that are essential for their families. For the sake of truth it should be said, there ARE nice, responsible and sober men in Russia but we don’t easily meet them. The unvarnished truth is: most Russian men abuse alcohol and do not provide for their families. Psychologists say, Russian men undervalue the essence of family.

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-> Finest Russian women are highly educated and want careers. Depending on where she lives in the FSU, she may find that it is impossible for her to have the career she wants and to realize her full potential there. Most educated women have more ambition than to simply function from 9 to 5 for a tiny salary. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as she seeks a loving relationship with the man and his moral support.

-> Some Russian women are looking to live in an economically more stable environment (and I don’t just mean the ones who are obviously looking for a ‘sugar daddy’, although there are some of those as well as you already know).
In other words, it is reasonable to say some want to live in a better economy but we can not assume that is what every Russian woman looking abroad desires.
There’s nothing wrong with that as well, as long as the woman’s feelings toward the man are sincere.

-> The female has an instinct to choose a mate of good genes, to support the family, and defend the children of that union. If the finest Russian women see American men for that basic instinct, than she has made a wise choice, not just about money, but thinking about the future.

-> Sometimes people are just lonely. They either have different standards or just haven’t met the right person and have expanded their selection. There is nothing wrong with that. There is something even satisfying about looking abroad. It can be a win-win situation.

“Marriages between Russian women and American men are very successful and harmonious”, O. Makhovskaya, the senior research assistant at the Psychology Institute in Russia’s Academy of Sciences says. “Families of this kind where husbands are Americans and women are Russians prove to be long-living, as the roles in the family are clearly distributed and the mechanism operates good, although these are mixed families. In such families each of the couple is ready to make concessions and on the whole, wonderfully performs the role.”

My opinion on these relationships is: trust. If you found the right person, if you met a nice woman don’t worry about the “why”…too much, there is no one answer. Trust and enjoy.

The notion ‘Russian woman’ includes women from Ukraine and Belarus as well, as they have very much in common.

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Russian Dating Russian women in the 21st Century

Before the birth of the Internet, the Russian dating game is quite complex as you have to put yourself out there. You need to go out and mingle with the Russian women such as in study groups, hanging out at a restaurant, going to Russian weddings and attending company-sponsored outings. This made it somewhat difficult for men to date Russian girls as they led busy lives as they go to work and attend to their other commitments. And it grows harder for me to date Russian women and find a suitable partner as they grow old. Thus, Russian women had no choice but to go on for the rest of their lives alone. At the same time, American men, for instance, find their Russian girls counterpart as aggressive and they regard money and stability as the most important aspects in a Russian marriage. In short, American men do not see an American woman as a suitable partner for them. And these are some of the reasons why American men today prefer Russian women of either European descent as generally, these women were raised in a traditional manner. But to go to Europe just to meet Russian women here is easier said than done. There is no American man who would go to lengths just to search for a Russian women or Russian girls that they would desire.

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But now, as Internet Russian dating has been introduced, it is much easier for men to scour for the Russian girls or Russian women that with whom they can potentially connect with and later on, spend the rest of their lives with. What men can do is that they can look for Russian websites that profiles different Russian women across the world who are looking for a possible long term Russian women relationship or even marriage. In addition, there are also several online personal ads such as one of the Russian services that offers that men can look at and if they see Russian women they like,t hey would send an E-mail to the Russian girls who placed the ad. And from there, men can hope that they would be able to hit it off with a Russian woman.

As mentioned before, American men prefer Asian and European women as opposed to American women. And one of the women that American men like are those who are Russian women as the latter are believed to prefer older men such as those who are in their forties as these men are already believed to be stable and mature enough to start a family with. At the same time, there are a lot of stunning Russian women that give out their phone number and E-mail address that are easily searchable as this will mainly be the way to reach them such as those featured in Russian Women site. All a man have to do is go through this website, and browse through the extensive list of women and their profile.

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What are you waiting for? Surf the web and hook up with a Russian woman now. The net is ripe for all those who are looking for them. Good luck in your search!

Dating Russian Women

Title: Russian date.. Is she your mate?

Russian women.. Elegant and feminine, sexy and beautiful, romantic and intriguing, caring and family-oriented.. It's grown so common for us, western men, to hear and read these characteristics of Slavic ladies that very often we get fascinated just by the very thought of dating a Russian.

And we do know that Russian ladies were leaving the former USSR countries and immigrating to be with western men by tens of thousands in the early and mid 1990'ies as a FACT.

The dream of males coming from different parts of the world to find a Russian bride stays. But are the statistical facts and records of successful international dating staying as well? Or gone?

What are East European women like now, 22 years after the Soviet system is gone? Are you still likely to get a response from them? If yes, how to spot the honest ones from scammers? And when you finally do meet someone nice and honest, are there any hints that could help you win their heart?

You can get answers to all of these questions in "DATING RUSSIAN AND UKRAINIAN WOMEN, 15 YEARS BACK AND NOW: WHAT HAS CHANGED? WHAT HASN'T?", a brief and easy-to-read guide-book on international dating by Tanya P, an interpreter for dating agencies and eyewitness to all the changes going on the dating scene in post-Soviet countries for the past 14 years.

You won't find encouragements nor criticisms for the idea of dating internationally itself in her book. It's all just the TRUE stories and experiences from the author's personal experiences, things she witnessed and observed. Something she wanted to share with her readers in order to help you get rid of faith in the out-of-date myths many Dating Agencies spread around; but rather to have realistic expectations and find out what to REALLY expect and what to take into consideration in order to succeed if you made up your mind to find a Russian bride now, in 2013.