Finest Russian Women Still Want American Men. Why?

Why do the finest Russian women search for American men?

As an owner of a free Russian women dating site, I have been asked a lot about Russian ladies looking for American men. Here is one of the questions:
I am a 31 year old American man and tried the personals in the US. I had little luck with local dating and regional dating sites. However, when I started using the Russian personals, the response was overwhelming.

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Why are the finest Russian women so much more interested in corresponding with American men than are American women interested in corresponding with American men?”
If you ask Russian ladies looking for American men about their motivations for seeking a husband abroad you may find out some convincing arguments for doing so.

Here are the top 6 reasons why the finest Russian women start searching for a foreign husband.

-> Census, Russia is home to 10 million more women then men. The number of women in their 30s noticeably exceeds the number of men. After the divorce, the woman with a kid (or with no kids) has little chance of getting married again in Russia, according to sociologists. There are no men in Russia to get married to: mortality rate of the working age males is extremely high.

-> Women are overloaded with family responsibilities in Russia: housekeeping, upbringing of children and earning of money. They have to take charge of all everyday problems that are essential for their families. For the sake of truth it should be said, there ARE nice, responsible and sober men in Russia but we don’t easily meet them. The unvarnished truth is: most Russian men abuse alcohol and do not provide for their families. Psychologists say, Russian men undervalue the essence of family.

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-> Finest Russian women are highly educated and want careers. Depending on where she lives in the FSU, she may find that it is impossible for her to have the career she wants and to realize her full potential there. Most educated women have more ambition than to simply function from 9 to 5 for a tiny salary. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as she seeks a loving relationship with the man and his moral support.

-> Some Russian women are looking to live in an economically more stable environment (and I don’t just mean the ones who are obviously looking for a ‘sugar daddy’, although there are some of those as well as you already know).
In other words, it is reasonable to say some want to live in a better economy but we can not assume that is what every Russian woman looking abroad desires.
There’s nothing wrong with that as well, as long as the woman’s feelings toward the man are sincere.

-> The female has an instinct to choose a mate of good genes, to support the family, and defend the children of that union. If the finest Russian women see American men for that basic instinct, than she has made a wise choice, not just about money, but thinking about the future.

-> Sometimes people are just lonely. They either have different standards or just haven’t met the right person and have expanded their selection. There is nothing wrong with that. There is something even satisfying about looking abroad. It can be a win-win situation.

“Marriages between Russian women and American men are very successful and harmonious”, O. Makhovskaya, the senior research assistant at the Psychology Institute in Russia’s Academy of Sciences says. “Families of this kind where husbands are Americans and women are Russians prove to be long-living, as the roles in the family are clearly distributed and the mechanism operates good, although these are mixed families. In such families each of the couple is ready to make concessions and on the whole, wonderfully performs the role.”

My opinion on these relationships is: trust. If you found the right person, if you met a nice woman don’t worry about the “why”…too much, there is no one answer. Trust and enjoy.

The notion ‘Russian woman’ includes women from Ukraine and Belarus as well, as they have very much in common.

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6 Tips for NOT Dating Russian Women

Look around the (online dating) web and you will notice that the online dating scene is a lot focused on single Russian women and other East European women. The reason that in particular women from these countries are looking for a foreign partner is generally known, but will not be discussed in this article. But I do like to give you some tips when you must NOT be dating or contacting Russian women.

Let me give you 6 valuable tips:

Tip 1.
If you are a single man and you don't want to be single anymore then you probably already are using the Internet as a source to find a new partner. But fun dating, chatting and playing around with people from your own culture or country is something different then being determined to find specific a Russian woman with the one and only purpose: to marry her. This means traveling to Russia (to meet her), possible language barrier, learning about the Russian (women) culture, be prepared for unexpected situations, like money expenses, possible scam situations (if you are looking in the wrong places) and many more.

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If you are not convinced about yourself that this is all worth for you, then don't start dating or contacting Russian women. A serious looking Russian woman who is a formal member of a serious established agency has already prepared herself before she decides to register herself as a possible candidate for serious looking single men from all over the world. She is not looking for pen pals or everlasting months of email correspondence, no she is looking for a life partner with one main purpose: to build a happy family.

Tip 2.

If you think that register yourself at some dubious free dating site would be enough to present yourself as a serious looking single man, who is looking for a serious marriage minded Russian woman with the expectation that many women will contact you first, then don't start to find your future Russian wife in these places, because you will not find them here. These kind of sites can be fun of course, but are also hotbeds for possible scammers.  Believe me, I have unfortunately a lot of experience with men who started at the wrong places. Be smart and take a huge head-start by avoiding these places.

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Tip 3.
There are people who register themselves in mens catalogs with photographs as if they are looking like Tarzans or use photos only wearing swimming shorts, just to impress young good looking ladies. And write a biography using 3 lines like Hello, my name is [name], I am a single man looking for a young beautiful woman who also likes music, going out, having fun and drive fast cars, if you are interested, then please write me back.

If you identify yourself with that kind of persons, then don't contact or try to impress Russian women in such way. Russian women are not looking for Brad Pitt look-alikes or muscles like Sylvester Stallone. They are not judging looks at all, and you will find out why if you take the trouble to do this the right way.

Tip 4.
If you think Russian women are looking for any (western) man just because you think they are looking for a new country, a better life, a wealthy man, no matter if he is 20 years older than she is, then please keep on dreaming. They just seek compatible partners for long term-relationships and marriage and want to love and be loved, that's all no more, no less!  Click HERE to look for your Russian bride.

Tip 5.
If you don't have a regular job or (enough) income or don't have a house/apartment (rent or owned) big enough to live with a family, or if you have any serious criminal records (I am not talking about non paid parking tickets), then don't try to bring a Russian woman into your country. You will not succeed. Not because of my personal advice which has nothing to do with this, but because of the strict regulations, procedures and rules that are imposed by the authorities when you have the intention to immigrate a Russian woman into your country.

Tip 6
If you think, that when she finally joins you in your country, you can start living your normal life again and if you think she is capable enough to find her own way in your (for her) strange country, to find at once a job, to teach herself your language and find by herself new friends and if you think she should be thankful that you have pulled her out her poor mafia controlled and corrupted country, then don't start even thinking about contacting a Russian woman. At least the first months she will need extra support from you to settle herself with you as a just married husband-and-wife couple and she has to adjust to your country (customs), your culture, your language, your friends, your colleagues, your shops, your train and bus schedule, your etc. and that takes time and patience from both of you.

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